A Letter From Our Editor:
My twenties were a decade full of life, love, and lessons. I’ve managed to overcome situations I thought [at the moment] I’d never get over. I’ve moved from state-to-state seeking the ideal home [only to find I was craving a new version of myself, not a new location], and I’ve fallen in [and out of] love enough times to recognize when it’s real. Long story short, my twenties were a journey I wasn’t quite prepared for, but am thankful I embarked on.
Now, as I enter my thirties with complete confidence, I feel it’s my duty to pass along a few tidbits to those who are still feeling a little unsure about the rollercoaster decade. So take it from me, you know, a mature 30-year-old [it’s been 72 hours], these few tips will help guide you in the right direction and make your exit/entrance into a new decade as smooth as possible. But in the meantime, have fun, make memories, and embrace the everchanging growth your twenties has to offer.
– Destinee A. Hughes
- Find a hobby that keeps you in shape, mentally and physically.
- Save more money than you spend. You’ll need it sooner than later.
- Travel. Go to as many countries as you can while your only responsibility is you.
- The first argument you have with your S.O is usually the last argument you have before you break up.
- Alcohol isn’t worth it. It ages you faster than you can imagine (think wrinkles and excess weight gain).
- Drink a lot of water; it’s truly the elixir of life.
- Moisturize your skin every single time you take a shower; your future self will thank you – trust me.
- Call your parents as much as you can, just like you they are getting older too.
- Your friends will start dropping like flies – let them.
- Once you hit 25, your twenties are technically your thirties – welcome.
- Learn how to grow your money. Educate yourself on stocks, cryptocurrencies, and investing.
- Get a dog or a pet – it’ll save you from the idea of having a child to save a relationship.
- Date as much as you can; this is how you learn yourself and what you value in a relationship.
- Expect at least two solid relationships; one toxic and one healthy.
- Experiment sexually – you’ll be thankful for the memories when you’re older.
- Move out of your home state; this is the best way to grow.
- You will get fired – it builds character, and 10/10 it puts you on the right path to your dream career.
- The first time you stand up for yourself will spark a new level of confidence in you –embrace it.
- At least one person close to you will pass away. So, cherish everyone you love a little more than you did yesterday.
- Fall in complete and absolute consuming love with yourself.
